I'm sure it's only a matter of time before this experience becomes my own. Nevertheless, I think that these mothers' desire to know more about the sperm donor than they already do is just creepy. I think it's ridiculous to call for regulations or for policies that share more extensive information about sperm donors. Here's the deal. If you want to know who your donor is, what his family is like, what he's like, what the medical issues are... then FIND HIM AND MARRY HIM. Or at least, FIND HIM AND LET HIM IMPREGNATE YOU. It seems silly to me to expect so much information from a venue such as a sperm bank. Furthermore, there's never any way to tell whether your child is going to be perfect or not. Whether your child's biological father is your husband, or ex, or a some guy you met at a costume party, or some guy you picked out of a catalog... conception is not risk-free. Even if you pay good money for it.